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Handfasting: The Ancient Art of Tying the Knot
One of my favourite parts of being a celebrant is introducing couples to beautiful symbolic gestures that give their ceremony a bit of extra heart. I've already written about the glorious Oathing Stone ; now I'd like to talk about one of the most powerful (and photogenic!) symbolic gestures of all. If you’ve ever watched Braveheart , you’ll remember the tender scene where William Wallace and Murron are married in secret, hands wrapped in tartan, whispering vows no one else h
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Nov 14, 20254 min read


Let's talk about sand, baby
There’s something beautifully simple about sand. It’s soft and unassuming. It gets everywhere. And it’s absolutely brilliant for symbolic ceremonies — especially if you’re looking for a keepsake that doesn’t wilt, need watering, or rely on you remembering where you last put it. Sand ceremonies have become a lovely feature in both weddings and naming ceremonies. Why? Because they’re visual, meaningful, and very forgiving if one of your party goes rogue with the pouring. How it
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Nov 14, 20254 min read


Weddings, Wallets, and What It'll Actually Cost You
It’s one of those things that can feel a bit awkward - but honestly, it shouldn’t be. You’re planning a wedding, not bartering for a second-hand sofa, and it’s important to know what’s what. So, how much does it cost to be legally married by me? All Humanist Society Scotland celebrants charge within a suggested price range set by the Society, so while we’re not pulling numbers out of thin air, there’s still a bit of room for personal flair. For weddings in 2026, my fee is £50
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Oct 1, 20252 min read
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