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What is your YES worth if you never say no?
As a humanist celebrant in Argyll , I’ve been honoured to walk beside people at some of the hardest moments of their lives. And again and...
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Jul 13, 20253 min read


Pass the (Hot) Potatoes
Since becoming a celebrant, I’ve found myself talking about death a lot more than I used to. I’m an absolute blast at dinner parties, let...
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Jul 6, 20253 min read


Be Yourself (Everyone Else is Already Taken)
As a kid, I loved reading. I absolutely devoured Enid Blyton— The Faraway Tree , The Famous Five , The Twins at St. Clare’s —I couldn’t...
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Jul 3, 20253 min read


Grief Isn’t Always About Death
Someone shared this quote with me recently, and it’s been quietly sitting with me ever since: "I don't think people understand how much...
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Jun 24, 20253 min read


From Hobbs to Tassels: Why I’m Wearing a Daffodil-Yellow Dress to a Funeral
Next week, I’ll be stepping out of my usual black funeral dress — a perfectly respectable, knitted Hobbs number that’s seen me through...
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Jun 20, 20252 min read


How to Choose the Right Celebrant (and Why It Matters More Than You Think)
When it comes to big life moments — weddings, funerals, naming ceremonies, or facing the end of life — you want more than someone who can...
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Jun 12, 20254 min read


Don’t Forget to Write Your Own Story
There’s a strange and beautiful paradox in being a celebrant: I spend my days helping other people tell their stories—shaping them,...
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Jun 11, 20253 min read


When the Story Changes: Honouring a Life, Not Just a Script
A few days ago, I wrote about holding space when it hurts —about the delicate honour of sitting with someone near the end of their life...
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Jun 9, 20253 min read


Holding Space When It Hurts
This morning I woke up with a sharp, breath-catching pain under my ribcage. The kind that makes you pause mid-inhalation and wonder what...
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Jun 6, 20253 min read


I had one job...
Well, aside from setting up the tables in the barn, wiping the bat poo off the cake table and trying to make sure the beer didn't get too...
susymcphee0
May 21, 20251 min read
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